http://fashionindie.disqus.com/Fashion & StyleenTue, 28 Dec 2010 13:10:50 -0000http://fashionindie.com/stuff-fashion-people-like-21-gay-fashion-designers/#comment-120171119<p>You wrote exactly what I have been thinking for a long time. When women let go of their need to be loved by a man (not that being loved is wrong but "needing" to be loved sets us up for failure-and please note that needing to be loved and dependence are two different things), we will start to exist and exert influence as the strong human beings we are. Currently, we are defined by our sex and nothing more. Education, work experience, etc-except for that of the few viewed as "bitches" (most who are of the opposite persuasion and view any dependence or reliance on a man as weakness)-are merely adornments most women "put on" in their pursuit of a man. </p>hephzabahTue, 28 Dec 2010 13:10:50 -0000